Aries – First Of The Zodiac

Welcome Aries Season & Find Out What They’re Like As Lovers & Friends

Aries, Aries, Aries! It’s a reason why they come first in the zodiac. They have the strongest leadership capabilities out of all the signs.

Whenever I think of an Aries, I think of the Aries archetype that I meditate on whenever I am trying to get a closer look into the facets of an Aries.

(I do this with all the signs, sometimes the archetype is a man, sometimes it’s a woman, I don’t decide, I let my meditation go wherever it goes and I follow it, not the other way around.)  

And for many reasons, the image that always comes to mind is a handsome high school jock who’s the star of the football team. He’s kind of douchey and fits that football player prenotion, but deep down, he’s a sweetheart. Of course, he’s used to having his way because he’s popular, athletic and usually quite the comic. And if its ever a time he doesn’t have all eyes on him, he knows how to use either his humor or aggression to get it. This guy often throws caution to the wind, and never backs down from an opportunity to lead the way, literally and figuratively.

In my meditations, whenever I call for Aries, he’s makes me meet him in front of his high school. He always has on his football gear with a football in his hands. He LOVES that game. He gives off the vibe that he doesn’t really want to be there with how he throws around his football and looks at me like he wishes I would hurry up and say whatever I need to say.

But somehow, in the midst of it all, he always manages to throw in this adorable, sarcastic smile when he’s trying to be flirty. He often interrupts me with a “I’ll do it”. I guess that’s just how he is, rather skip the small talk and get right to it. He knows he the best for the job, he always gets it done, fast and efficient, whatever it is.

Aries is ruled by the planet Mars, which is the planet of action, initiative, ego and what? WAR! Makes sense now, doesn’t it?

Personally, as a Capricorn, I mesh well with Aries, as friends and lovers. So, I thought you might gain from hearing my personal encounters with Aries. Maybe you share my perspective or need to hear it!

ARIES AS LOVERS

You may not know or believe this but despite Aries constant tough guy act, they are some of the sweetest lovers you will ever have. Once you learn how to co-exist with an Aries, you will find that they are extremely loyal (meaning good to you, if you are good to them, because they definitely cheat.) They will do anything for the ones they love, right after they give you a piece of their mind of course. Nonetheless, as a lover Aries will push you past your potential and make sure you have everything you need to be successful and will beat up anyone or thing standing in your way. Who wouldn’t want someone like that on their team?

The downside to falling in love with an Aries is that their strong personality often finds other strong personalities as a challenge. And we all know Capricorns and Aries never back down from competition. So, for me, this is usually where things get a little cray (literally).

This is usually how Aries view almost everything in their lives; competitively. And in love, that’s never a good perspective to have. Any zodiac sign with a strong personality will find the same issues with an Aries. Some signs will be able to deal with the constant tug of war with their lover. But you have some signs, like mine, that that kind of love will take a toll on and eventually be the reason why they leave. 

But an Aries’ tendency to love self is very strong, sometimes so strong that they come off as self-centered which in relationships tends to leave the other person feeling slighted and unnurtured by Aries. And when you bring this to their attention, you better believe they will laugh you out and insist that you’re being too “sensitive”. Then adding more fuel to the fire, they will resort to joking at a time when you’re not.

Their inability to realize or care enough to refrain from antagonizing behavior is what can make Aries come off as childish. But trust me, holding a grudge against an Aries is impossible. They always manage to reappear in your good graces telling that same joke that pissed you off.

Loving an Aries takes patience, balls and a helluva sense of humor. If you need an idea of what I mean, just think about Martin Lawrence and Gina’s love. Now do you get it?

ARIES AS FRIENDS

You need a ride or die? Someone that’s going to have your back more than you have your own? Then, call up your dear friend, Aries. They’ll never disappoint you. But, sometimes I can’t help but question if they go so hard for the ones they love because they love them or because they cant turn down a good ole brawl. Either way, they’ll always have you covered.

If you’re looking for a friend that sugar coats truths and holds back, an ARIES CANNOT YOUR FRIEND, period! They respect friends who they can be themselves with and wont constantly complain about how mean they are or what comes out of their mouths.

Aries are all about the ego, so you have to watch what you say to them if you want to avoid getting cursed out, even if it’s the truth. Ironic huh? They literally say whatever they want to whoever but make you feel like you better think twice before saying what you really think of them. That’s just an Aries for you. Remember how Martin used to treat Tommy, Cole and Pam?

But, what Aries lack in sportsmanship, they definitely make up for in humor. These are some of the funniest people you will ever meet. And if for nothing else, you will want to be in an Aries life just for the kicks and giggles.  

7 Reasons Why You Need A Libra On Your Team

I hate to say good-bye to one of the most popping signs of the zodiac but Virgo season has come to an end, just like our last days of summer.

In with Fall comes the vibrant, cool breeze of those lucky Libras. And trust me, they don’t call them lucky for no reason.

libra-810x8104532480642380247307

This particular sign resonates with me, not because I’m one myself, but because some of the most important people in my life are. There’s nothing about a Libra that I haven’t experienced firsthand. Being raised by one and having a Libra best friend of 15 years, definitely qualifies me, in my book, as a Libran expert!

Make no mistakes about it, Librans definitely have their ways as any and every other sign does, but they are truly amazing people.

Check out the 7 reasons why everyone needs a Libra on their team!

1. They give you more than one chance.

In love and friendship, though they hate to admit it, they don’t mind handing out passes when someone has turned them sour. They believe in forgiveness and though they never forget, they get over things awfully quick. This sign represents balance and harmony so this is how they prefer things and the people around them, peaceful.

9/10 times when a Libra forgives and gives you another chance, they’re doing it for themselves, not you! So, if you’re known for not being that great of a friend or lover, go get you a Libra. They’ll tolerate your shit as they try to whip you into shape.

2. They’re fair

They make great mediators so always have a Libra around when you’re trying to get to the bottom of something with someone. They have the ability to remain neutral while helping both sides make their point in a respectful way. There’s always two sides to a story and the truth and Libras will find that truth.

No matter if you’re their best friend, parent or boss, they will be fair to you and with you regardless of who you all are in the presence of. You can count on that.

3. Oh, they keep it real real!

Although this sign comes off as delicate and innocent, the mouths on these people are scary. If you’ve never been cursed out by a Libra, do me a favor and DON’T! That sweet smile goes out the window and satan suddenly appears spewing fire from the pit of his gut. Yeah, it’s that bad.

But, it’s only when a Libra truly loves you that they will be brutally honest with you and tell it like it is. Librans are known for having an uncensored mouth so the things they say either ends making you laugh or cry. Who doesn’t want someone on their team who’s going to tell you your ideas suck when they really do?

4. They’re nice to look at

Usually a Libra is super cute/handsome with impeccable style and taste. They have “that eye” for nice things so they make a perfect date for any event you invite them to. They tend to be the life of the party, flashing that perfect smile and batting those long lashes everywhere at everyone. They will be nicely dressed, charming the pants off whoever they’re talking to. Want to seal the deal with those higher ups? Well, bring along your Libra friend and watch as they use their looks, charm and style to help win hearts over. Just don’t forget to thank them later! No, seriously you better say thank you or else…

5. They’re freaks with a capital F. R. E. A. K. S

Naturally, Librans are creative and expressive people. They show their love and appreciation through expressions of affection, intimacy and let’s just say it, SEX! This is a sign that doesn’t hold back in the bedroom and will try anything at least twice. Even if it’s something they aren’t really into, they will continue to do it or allow you to do it if they know it makes you happy; they’re the ultimate pleasers. This is the sign that’s down with the threesomes, public sex, fetishes, remember I said they’re open. Needless to say, they are selfless lovers who embrace experimentation because they simply enjoy loving others how they want to be loved; freely and passionately. Librans are the definition of spice so you can count on them to be up to something hot and wild with some forbidden fruit.

6. They have that “eye” for nice things.

If you have any sort of project that needs creative direction, Libras are your go-to people. They naturally have a keen eye for great visuals and always do things on a grand scale. Careers in photography, modeling, event planning and interior designing are usually taken up by Librans. They do not believe in mediocracy so everything they do has to be a major production. Rather you want to revamp your wardrobe, apartment or website, count on a Librans exquisite taste to get the job done right.

7. They’re Funny ASF

The funny bone in these people is definitely strong and long. They’re sensitive, yes, but they know how to tell a good joke. Libras are the kind of people you can share a much-needed laugh with, like a real laugh, the one where you’re bent over drooling at the mouth , can’t breathe because your stomach is so tight. We all know that kind of laughing is good for the soul. They will have you wondering why they’re not on someone’s stage sharing that unintentional humor with the world. If you don’t believe me, think about some celebrity Libras (Snoop Dogg, Cardi B, Will Smith) and convince me they’re not funny. I’ll wait!

Now do you see why they call them Lucky Libras? They simply have it all; looks, brains and a good heart. Do yourself a solid and get a Libra by your side. You can’t go wrong!